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Coding Chickens & Trauma-Mitigation
Dear Everyone: I had a lengthy, commiserating missive composed for today. I wrote extensively about the impact of chronic toxic stress,...
Kemia Sarraf
6 min read


The Light Comes...
Dear Everyone: I know it's been a minute, and I know what y'all were thinking: Now why don't she write? (don't know the reference? You're...
Kemia Sarraf
2 min read


A reminder, and an opportunity
Dear Everyone: This edition of Cereal With Hand-Poured Milk (HPM) will be short and pointed. And although there exists the temptation to...
Kemia Sarraf
2 min read


Ducks, Memes, and Hope In Broken Things™
Dear Everyone: I recently participated in a lively podcast where the host and I wandered through a range of ideas around wellness,...
Kemia Sarraf
3 min read


Protect Your Bandwidth
Dear Everyone: Life has a way of teaching us the same lesson until we finally demonstrate competence. The universal lesson of now seems...
Kemia Sarraf
2 min read


Farm Lessons: Coding Chickens & Micro-Mitigation Moments
Dear Everyone: Farm life carries a unique set of challenges and loves to remind The Husband and I that we, in fact, know almost nothing...
Kemia Sarraf
4 min read


The Answer is Us
Pain teaches us the most counterintuitive thing – that we must go down before we even can know what up is. Suffering of some sort seems...
Kemia Sarraf
3 min read


Wild Places Make You Earn It...
Dear Everyone: We Repeat What We Don’t Repair. The number of times I’ve recited this fundamental truth can’t be quantified. It’s a...
Kemia Sarraf
3 min read


We're All Cracked...
Dear Everyone: A recent influx of new subscribers and site members served as a reminder that it's past time to reintroduce myself and our...
Kemia Sarraf
2 min read


Into the Wilderness I go...
Dear Everyone: This week’s edition of Cereal with Hand Poured Milk comes to you from deep in the Boundary Waters Canoe Area Wilderness. ...
Kemia Sarraf
2 min read


Wanted: Adultier Adults
Dear Everyone: Hitch a ride when you need to. Provide safe passage when you can. ~~ For the record, I am a world-class catastrophizer. I...
Kemia Sarraf
4 min read


Dad's Village
Dear Everyone: I chose wisely when I married. (I also got a bit lucky. But we'll stick with "wise") My husband is fierce, brilliant,...
Kemia Sarraf
3 min read


ReWrite...
Dear Everyone: I had a lengthy missive written and ready for this week’s edition of Cereal with Hand-Poured Milk when a dear friend and...
Kemia Sarraf
3 min read


ReEntry is #NotABear
Dear Everyone: This week’s edition of Cereal with Hand Poured Milk comes to you from the desk of Kelly Hurst. Kelly is a Lodestar JEDI...
Kemia Sarraf
3 min read


Expanding Metaphors...(in the month of Re)
Dear Everyone: What happens if we connect our reservoirs? ~~ I love metaphor. Throughout the #Tridemic, one of the most frequent requests...
Kemia Sarraf
5 min read


The Month of "Re"
Dear Everyone: I would like to formally declare June The Month of Re There are lots of Re words floating around out there right now...
Kemia Sarraf
4 min read


Make Space for Joy
Dear Everyone: This week’s edition of Cereal With Hand Poured Milk finds us on the cusp of summer. COVID cases are steadily declining,...
Kemia Sarraf
3 min read


SAGing Into What's Next...
"Honor the space between no longer and not yet." Nancy Levin As we enter True Spring and the hope, planning, and aspiration that...
Kemia Sarraf
3 min read


"Who Do I Want To Be?"
Dear Everyone: Stress isn’t a bad thing. In fact, stress - particularly when appropriate, scaffolded supports are in place - is central...
Kemia Sarraf
4 min read


The Legacy Stops Here
Dear Everyone: Remember how they taught you. How much of it was fear. Refuse to hand it down. The legacy stops here… Melissa Etheridge ~~...
Kemia Sarraf
3 min read
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