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Kemia Sarraf
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Dad's Village
Dear Everyone: I chose wisely when I married. (I also got a bit lucky. But we'll stick with "wise") My husband is fierce, brilliant,...


Kemia Sarraf
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ReWrite...
Dear Everyone: I had a lengthy missive written and ready for this week’s edition of Cereal with Hand-Poured Milk when a dear friend and...


Kemia Sarraf
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ReEntry is #NotABear
Dear Everyone: This week’s edition of Cereal with Hand Poured Milk comes to you from the desk of Kelly Hurst. Kelly is a Lodestar JEDI...


Kemia Sarraf
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Expanding Metaphors...(in the month of Re)
Dear Everyone: What happens if we connect our reservoirs? ~~ I love metaphor. Throughout the #Tridemic, one of the most frequent requests...


Kemia Sarraf
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The Month of "Re"
Dear Everyone: I would like to formally declare June The Month of Re There are lots of Re words floating around out there right now...

Kemia Sarraf
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Make Space for Joy
Dear Everyone: This week’s edition of Cereal With Hand Poured Milk finds us on the cusp of summer. COVID cases are steadily declining,...


Kemia Sarraf
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Not Everything is a Face-Eating Bear
Dear Everyone: The most frequent lament I hear these days is, “I’ve never been this stuck. I’ve never been this tired. I’ve never been...


Kemia Sarraf
3 min read
The Dance of Brain and Mind
I love the way our brains are built to detect and react to threat. We have an amazing “fast track” that enables us to respond without...


Kemia Sarraf
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Entirety of Almost Everything
Dear Everyone: Never tie your growth to things you cannot control. This strikes me as incredibly sound advice if we are willing to...


Kemia Sarraf
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Five Simple Ways to Renew Today
In the midst of the drama and chaos and trauma of our times, the tsunami of stress can feel overwhelming. We see it manifest in the news...


Kemia Sarraf
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Small, Attainable Goals
Dear Everyone: As we enter True Spring and the hope, planning, and aspiration that accompanies these longer, warmer days, let us pay...


Kemia Sarraf
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SAGing Into What's Next...
"Honor the space between no longer and not yet." Nancy Levin As we enter True Spring and the hope, planning, and aspiration that...


Kemia Sarraf
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Beware The "Cheerleaders"
Dear Everyone: In this week’s edition of Cereal With Hand Poured Milk (aka “figure out what you can half-ass without harm”) we’re going...


Kemia Sarraf
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Cereal with Hand Poured Milk (the beginning)
Dear Everyone: Cereal with Hand-Poured Milk is a meandering little blog I wrote a few months back. It touches on Tridemic Trauma, the...


Kemia Sarraf
4 min read
Settle Your Glitter
Dear Everyone: Recently, I read the following article about helping teenagers "settle their glitter." It stuck with me, both practically...


Kemia Sarraf
3 min read
What Do Your Spotters Say?
I’ve got blind spots. We all do. And one of my consistent blind spots is being aware of when I’m doing too much. It’s often not until I...


Kemia Sarraf
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What Breaks Your Heart?
Dear Everyone: When we summon the strength to fight for those things that most break our heart, we are living into our life’s purpose....


Kemia Sarraf
4 min read
"Who Do I Want To Be?"
Dear Everyone: Stress isn’t a bad thing. In fact, stress - particularly when appropriate, scaffolded supports are in place - is central...


Kemia Sarraf
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What Would Make it Easy?
This week's guest blog is brought to you by Dr. Ann V. Deaton, Lodestar Coach, Facilitator and Master Coach Trainer. -- What would make...


Kemia Sarraf
4 min read
Cereal with Hand-Poured Milk
Dear Everyone: I sat down to write today and realized something: I. Am. Tired. In fact, I'm beyond tired. I'm exhausted - and wholly,...
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